From The Archives: Buddhism and Polyamory

For this episode, we are joined by scottie hall, creator and facilitator of Dharma Core, a Minneapolis based Queer Meditation Community group that is a part of the Common Ground Meditation Center.  They came to the Poly In The Cities lab to share how the philosophies of Buddhism can compliment polyamory.  It was a very insight dialogue.

Also — LISTENER MAIL!!!

 

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Other resources mentioned on the show:

Redefining Our Relationships: Guidelines for Responsible Open Relationships by Wendy-O Matik

Rewriting The Rules: An Integrative Guide to Love, Sex, and Relationships by Meg Barker

Rilke on Love and Other Difficulties: Translations and Considerations

Against The Stream Meditation Society

Spirit Rock Meditation Center

 

 

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From The Archives: Abuse In Kink

** CONTENT WARNING TO OUR LISTENERS: This topic may create strong emotional reactions and we want to strongly encourage everyone to listen (or not listen) to your own comfort levels.  Please exercise self care when listening to this episode.***

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO POLY IN THE CITIES!!!!  We’ve made to our first year!  Hooray!

Today, we are joined by Emily and Shawny, local sex educators in the twin cities who have gracious agreed to join us in the celebration of “Sextember” by talking about how abuse can happen in the kink community, how to recognize it, and how you can support others who are experiencing it.

You can direct any questions or comments by leaving a voicemail or text message at (507) 556-7659 or by going to our Contact Us link.

 

Resources mentioned on the show:

Kink Friendly Professionals

The difference between S/M and Abuse

BDSM vs Abuse

Consent Violations Survey

The Dirty Normal

Healing Sex

 

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Episode 38: Un-Learning Jealousy

We are joined by local sex and relationship therapist, Carise Rotach-Beard, who came to the Poly In The Cities lab to share with our listeners her recent workshop on jealousy.  She brought her amazing blend of intelligence and f-bombs to schools us all on the topic and how to navigate this very complex emotion.  It’s a really great listen.

Also…..listener mail!!

You can direct any questions by leaving a voicemail or text message by dialing (507) 556-7659 or by going to our Contact Us link.

 

Other Resources mentioned on the show:

Irene Greene’s Relationship Workshop for Queer, Poly and Kink

Desire Mapping with Jaime Grant free workshop at the Smitten Kitten

Desire Mapping with Jaime Grant (extended) workshop at the University of Minnesota

“Fuck Yes or No” article about dating

Susan Johnson’s “Hold Me Tight”

Esther Perel’s “Mating In Captivity”

Brene Brown video about Blame

Episode 29: Poly Friendly Therapists

For this episode, we are joined by Laura Rademacher of Sky Hill Therapy to talk with us about how to empower yourself by finding a therapist who can work with non monogamous folks.

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Here are some other links mentioned on the show:

AASECT Providers List

Psychology Today Therapist Search

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Therapist Directory

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